Season 2 | Episode 2 - Why Choosing Yourself Is the Hardest and Most Powerful Thing a Woman Can Do

00:00:00: Every experience in life is put, even negative and positive.

00:00:04: It's very important to create a relationship with yourself.

00:00:09: take care of your soul

00:00:11: and heart

00:00:12: And really talk to your hearts.

00:00:14: All these things in our modern world social media.

00:00:17: they are trying to disconnect us

00:00:19: from ourselves

00:00:20: because we are powerless when we're disconnected

00:00:23: from ourselves.

00:00:30: Hi!

00:00:30: Welcome to Her Voice Impacts.

00:00:32: I'm Daniella Eon and we are building a movement of light-filled women across the globe.

00:00:43: Her voice impacts is about the soul story, the story of women who were doing great things using their skills and talents social impact creative diplomacy.

00:00:56: today I have a wonderful friend but also an inspirational woman Nina Skalikova, who is not just a photographer.

00:01:05: I believe that she has an essence about her That brings so much Patience to the people around here.

00:01:14: it makes you feel at peace.

00:01:17: Her story About breaking fear of stepping out of her comfort zone and leaving her own country to travel the world, find herself.

00:01:28: And not just that but through pain and suffering she then knew what her life path was.

00:01:37: It's

00:01:38: a phenomenal

00:01:38: story for young woman who really started listening in her inner voice Her inner voice guiding her regularly from child Not just that.

00:01:53: In the process of her travelling in the world and to very, very different places.

00:01:58: may I add.

00:01:59: you have watch...to get it

00:02:00: all

00:02:01: a whole story.

00:02:03: she meets her soulmate And this is because Of few things that she did in her life That brought her soul mate So Her voice impacts.

00:02:16: It's a packed episode But I'm so excited to have her here, to discuss all of these attributes as a woman that you too can tap into.

00:02:30: That inner self-love and create the world that you desire and deserve.

00:02:40: Nina!

00:02:42: I am very excited to Have You Here today And we're going be talking All Things Love but with purpose spirit, and also your journey from this amazing love and passion that you have with photography.

00:03:04: I do know that!

00:03:06: And i've watched you...and how it's led into humanitarian work the love of travel all these beautiful things.

00:03:22: And I found that you have this beauty about you, how do i explain it?

00:03:33: You have a rare essence most people don't have anymore and its called patience.

00:03:39: I have patients and

00:03:41: i've seen

00:03:42: that when you're at work, And your taking photos.

00:03:45: You had this patience about detail... ...and also understanding where the other person is in their.... When you are taking photos of people obviously.. ..you having to see where they act.

00:04:01: They might be scared doing movements or something like that But were very patient with it!

00:04:07: Yeah,

00:04:08: but you saw me only while working with you and... Yes!

00:04:10: You're just naturally amazing to take pictures of so it was really easy to work with you.

00:04:17: You have to consider this

00:04:19: But you have worked with people?

00:04:21: I would say that i have patience.

00:04:23: yes

00:04:23: yeah you do And that is a part of an attribute That is part of beauty because love is patient.

00:04:29: right?

00:04:30: Tell me about how... I know a little bit of your story, the love for photography.

00:04:35: How did that start?

00:04:36: Because you were given a camera or

00:04:39: father had a camera and my father heard a camera And i was just borrowing it and taking pictures of flowers and myself.

00:04:50: My hamster!

00:04:51: Your hamster is parted with photography.

00:04:54: Yeah all of them.

00:04:55: like eight of them.

00:04:56: You had eight hamsters.

00:04:59: That's another story.

00:05:00: Wow!

00:05:01: Yeah, so it started here and I'm very like passionate about art...I love to create stuff but i was just jumping from one thing to an other and photography is the only thing I stuck into

00:05:18: And this is something that your father was doing as well?

00:05:22: Oh It was

00:05:24: a hobby.

00:05:25: What kind of camera did you Taken use like?

00:05:30: what did it look?

00:05:30: I'm sure wasn't an iPhone.

00:05:32: No, I don't think there was an iPhone.

00:05:35: no time It was just tickets or camera.

00:05:38: one of the first ones right and when I Was taking somewhere people were looking at me because it was unusual to have this camera.

00:05:46: at that Time they thought that i am just a journalist Or something.

00:05:50: you're

00:05:50: a journalist!

00:05:52: When You were ten

00:05:53: yeah

00:05:54: And how would you go and get these photos developed?

00:05:57: or do it yourself?

00:05:58: Would you have a little...

00:06:00: It was digital camera, so I didn't need to develop

00:06:03: them.

00:06:04: But even more love to edit this picture in Photoshop To play with colours and other stuff, create something from it.

00:06:19: So my passion for editing is taking pictures back then.

00:06:24: Wow.

00:06:24: No, no

00:06:25: and how did you teach yourself?

00:06:26: Like is this something that came naturally to you?

00:06:29: or You found that you had to

00:06:31: train?

00:06:33: I was just learning these by myself because maybe you would say I have

00:06:40: Patience but

00:06:42: i'm not really patient when someone is teaching me Something.

00:06:45: so okay

00:06:47: So do want to know straight away How To Do Something?

00:06:49: Yeah And do you find that it's something in your life, that propels you?

00:06:54: That... You're not going to wait for someone To show you how to do things.

00:06:59: We are gonna take the risk a little bit.

00:07:02: I just need to learn from my own mistakes, y'know

00:07:05: Wow Learned From Your Own Mistakes.

00:07:07: I know It can hurt sometimes Yes Most of the times But i need to experience that Feel that and learn from that.

00:07:15: That is fascinating.

00:07:16: Okay so this Is Something For you, photography opened up a new world.

00:07:22: We can say that yes!

00:07:23: Did it start here in Slovakia for you?

00:07:27: Yeah I started to take pictures of my friends and myself And then i asked some celebrities in Slovakia.

00:07:35: It started to grow

00:07:36: Right.

00:07:37: is that how your online presence sort of started to develop?

00:07:42: by posting these pictures, or was it you writing?

00:07:45: Because I do see that there is a lot of them in Slovak.

00:07:48: So after we spread the translate unfortunately but... Is that how its started ?

00:07:53: Is this content , or are they pictures?

00:07:56: what's

00:07:56: developed on Facebook back then?

00:07:58: Oh right!

00:07:59: It was one of those first when the pages facebook page

00:08:03: started

00:08:04: so i had disney nascali coa photography and ...I really liked it And I was authentic.

00:08:12: I wasn't like, you know just post pictures with nothing... Yes!

00:08:16: ...I was really authentic.

00:08:17: so talking to people who were watching me my followers and it's been defining since then

00:08:31: Wow So You took an opportunity when obviously Facebook is starting out of pages where people weren't?

00:08:40: I mean, they were just posting whatever.

00:08:42: People are posting whatever but you saw something that you could grow?

00:08:47: Is it how do think of things like if i'm going to start this and want to grow or something...I don't wanna stay small.

00:08:55: No never I had big dreams Yes But other dreams And these was my hobby brought me the joy and it made me happy.

00:09:10: So I wasn't thinking about growing into bigger, um...I was just enjoying it.

00:09:18: And i think when people do something with joy and love It will show later.

00:09:24: so yeah doesn't have to be calculated

00:09:28: No!

00:09:28: So is there an organic process for you?

00:09:31: Did you find that you learned things yourself While doing this hobby, like did it stretch you?

00:09:39: Did it test you in some way or do you think I just want to give up.

00:09:43: I don't wanna do these anymore

00:09:45: Of course!

00:09:46: It was just sixteen and... You were

00:09:48: sixteen?!

00:09:49: ...I was bullying by some guys at my school because of

00:09:52: this.

00:09:53: Yeah they were making fun me And i got bad comments on my page and I was just sixteen.

00:10:01: And it was unusual in the back time, this time because now people or kids they have Instagram and social media everywhere since there are ten.

00:10:14: So you were like...

00:10:15: It's something new for me that some people can hate to you and write something bad to you but even go to police because someone is threatening with killing

00:10:26: Just because you were taking photos?

00:10:29: No, I think it was just a man who was... Oh!

00:10:32: It's like stalker.

00:10:33: Yeah

00:10:34: Wow wow.

00:10:35: So what if things were scary for a sixteen year old?

00:10:39: It was yeah.

00:10:41: And so when you are going through this did you think no it's not worth it anymore Don't be.

00:10:45: go want to have his kind of life where You know your putting yourself in the public eye and then allowing this scrutiny to come towards you, like... ...the bullying and all of that.

00:10:58: How did you navigate

00:10:59: that?

00:11:01: It still brought me more joy than I said as our negative feelings.

00:11:07: so i never thought about quitting it-I loved it.

00:11:10: but now when I'm older.. ..I am thinking more and more about quitting or just changing somehow because its kinds take your soul in some way when you are expressing yourself and when you open yourself, a new heart to the public

00:11:28: space.

00:11:29: It still brings me joy but it's more precious to me now.

00:11:34: privacy.

00:11:36: Wow yeah okay that's really interesting!

00:11:38: You say that because we're living in society where there is so much sharing to watch of people's lives that really, I mean twenty years ago would be mundane.

00:11:56: Like why do you want someone eating breakfast every day and having pieces toast or something?

00:12:05: Do find it now in society we are wanting pull back a little bit more not closed off but keep what is private sacred to ourselves in some

00:12:17: ways?

00:12:17: I think it would be good for everyone.

00:12:22: I think that social media brought a lot of good things, yes!

00:12:27: For us people we are more connected with other people around the world

00:12:32: but...

00:12:33: We're less connected to our selves and friends through our closest ones to our neighbours And they can really destroy relationships

00:12:42: personal relationships as well.

00:12:45: and also when you're in a situation where You are online, And have so many followers.

00:12:52: Someone knows someone!

00:12:55: It seems like it just keeps getting bigger and bigger.

00:12:58: Do find sometimes that Just having no one know you is actually

00:13:03: A

00:13:03: really wonderful

00:13:04: thing.

00:13:05: Yeah maybe thats why I enjoy travelling So much.

00:13:09: Okay Wow The travelling

00:13:13: part

00:13:13: for you, what does that actually do to your soul but also for you overall as a mission in life?

00:13:27: Like if I understand it right.

00:13:29: What does travelling mean for myself?

00:13:31: Yeah because travelling is important

00:13:34: It is.

00:13:36: I never wanted to travel, i was really scared when I was younger and actually engaged at the age of twenty.

00:13:44: What?

00:13:45: Yeah.

00:13:45: You're twenty!

00:13:48: And...I was scared to go abroad by bus somewhere in a foreign country then realized that maybe it's missing something or I need to explore myself I need to feel alive.

00:14:09: And...I broke up and started traveling the world.

00:14:13: So you broke off your engagement?

00:14:17: Was that the catalyst for you, is it needed to be free yourself To go find who are?

00:14:24: Yeah like inner voice in myself, and it was really intense.

00:14:31: And he was saying you need to go travel somewhere even if you die there!

00:14:36: You just need to Go!

00:14:37: Wow that's a very strong...

00:14:39: It was?

00:14:40: I

00:14:40: felt like this!

00:14:42: Wow wow and

00:14:43: listen to it.

00:14:44: so.. That is the very interesting thing that you said.

00:14:48: you listened to your inner voice which um Is that something you've always done or something you had to learn along?

00:14:56: That's my inner voice, I'm gonna listen to that.

00:15:00: Hmm...I'd say there are days or just periods of time when i know it's there and its telling me something but I don't listen

00:15:12: right?

00:15:13: And they're days When I listened to it..and I dont'know if some day realized There is this voice.

00:15:22: It was just natural for

00:15:23: me.

00:15:25: Maybe I was listening to it when i was little kid.

00:15:28: Do you

00:15:29: feel that's your voice?

00:15:31: Like a version of your voice or is there different voice, so is it an gut instinct of some sort?

00:15:41: yeah It doesn't sound like my voice No!

00:15:46: my more mature, intelligent

00:15:51: self in some ways.

00:15:52: Right?

00:15:53: So you felt like your always been guided...in some way.

00:15:58: so you broke off engagement at twenty which is very young when think about it.

00:16:03: right

00:16:04: I wanted to be this young wife and just be home cook clean everything.

00:16:11: It wouldn't be like this exactly, but I felt like... This is in your... ...I need to explore something.

00:16:16: I need to find out why and when am alone?

00:16:19: When you're alone!

00:16:22: Wow okay so being alone see this is extraordinary.

00:16:26: So you make that decision.

00:16:28: You then go and travel.

00:16:29: where do you go to travel to go and find yourself And be alone?

00:16:33: at the same time

00:16:35: I promised to my dad, only think.

00:16:37: He was okay with me going on a trip but he asked me please don't go to India it's dangerous for women.

00:16:44: Wait!

00:16:44: It is coming.

00:16:45: And i said why would you want to go there?

00:16:49: I went to Cambodia and met men from india.

00:16:56: You

00:16:56: met someone in India.

00:16:57: We fell

00:16:58: in love, he invited me and i was like... I never wanted to go India But when if not now?

00:17:04: so I went there and spent two months.

00:17:07: And what happened?

00:17:08: when you went to India?

00:17:10: knowing that your father had said, don't go into India!

00:17:13: I was scared to tell him but he told me okay just take care of yourself.

00:17:21: it was a shock for me in India.

00:17:22: i was really shocked.

00:17:24: even love instantly with this country back then.

00:17:29: Every

00:17:31: year,

00:17:32: I

00:17:33: think.

00:17:33: You're always there?

00:17:34: Yeah!

00:17:34: When I watch your stories on Instagram you are in India

00:17:38: and but

00:17:38: you were all parts of India...I

00:17:40: want to travel older Indian old parts.

00:17:42: Wow that's my only dream.

00:17:44: this

00:17:44: is your dream.

00:17:45: so do you believe like as your journey by making these?

00:17:50: it's a big decision at twenty just go find yourself not really ever even experienced, and you said it was a shock to you.

00:18:05: How do feel now knowing that?

00:18:07: You did that at such an young age!

00:18:09: And then know wow I went somewhere where i had no clue what were doing who are... Where am I?

00:18:17: Why don't think of this right now like what have achieved in these years.. I'm so

00:18:20: proud my younger self really

00:18:22: yeah ..I've

00:18:23: also scared before ...and In family ,i was known as the scariest child.

00:18:29: Wow, like the most afraid of stuff?

00:18:32: Yeah.

00:18:33: And I wanted to be more brave and a strong woman.

00:18:40: so i'm really proud that

00:18:43: you did it!

00:18:45: How is your soul connected with India?

00:18:49: because there's obviously something inside?

00:18:54: Yeah, there must be but I haven't tried.

00:18:56: No i haven't find it and need to find it But it has to be connected in some way.

00:19:00: yeah And what do you find that?

00:19:03: You connect with India?

00:19:05: Well how does it make you feel when you're them?

00:19:07: obviously the first time was you had to figure out What are doing but now that your regularly they're

00:19:13: I Feel like the wild child.

00:19:17: Yes Just a field of freedom home.

00:19:23: It's so dirty, so smelly but I feel like at home there.

00:19:29: But it is so colourful and people are very nice when you know them.

00:19:34: And just...it's so cringe!

00:19:37: This country is really cringey.

00:19:39: People are cringe but i love cringe.

00:19:42: Sometimes i watch Bollywood movies for cringe.

00:19:46: Wow do you think a part of your maybe we've talked about this little bit your life had been spent there beforehand in one way or that?

00:19:58: because some people are connected to countries, you have this connection.

00:20:02: To the...to the people as well?

00:20:05: Do feel like maybe you've been here before and another lifetime may be...?

00:20:10: Definitely!

00:20:10: Maybe there might be Nepal.

00:20:12: I don't know about Nepal This part of the world definitely.

00:20:16: And how did you adjust to obviously the environment and What did you want to do there like because you were there then?

00:20:25: what happens?

00:20:28: I just wanted walking through streets And Just feeling the presence of this place.

00:20:36: The present moment be in it Talked to people making new friends.

00:20:43: People in India are so lovely Like they can be dangerous.

00:20:47: two women very dangerous

00:20:49: really

00:20:50: But when you get to know them, they are the most generous people.

00:20:56: It's wonderful!

00:20:58: What is your connection there with women?

00:21:02: what do you sense there for yourself?

00:21:06: not only there but I've been feeling strong connections towards woman since young.

00:21:14: yes

00:21:15: i started taking pictures of women because For me women are the most beautiful creatures on this planet.

00:21:23: I love their essence, they faces...I love faces of woman around the world all different kinds and i love our womanhood.

00:21:34: And..i'm feminist.

00:21:38: Yes

00:21:38: Because when you meet these women around a world You see that they have different.

00:21:45: They don't have much freedom like we And they have different opportunities and different rules in their life.

00:21:54: Our lives are really different than them, even our lives here in Slovakia.

00:22:00: it's different then men's lives

00:22:02: Yes!

00:22:04: That is why its important to fight for this right?

00:22:08: And that being able be your true authentic self.

00:22:13: What?

00:22:14: her voice impact stands on?

00:22:16: is that authenticity of being

00:22:19: your

00:22:20: true voice, speaking and doing the things set you feel as a woman.

00:22:27: You should be able to do right?

00:22:29: Not to do anything for anyone in no for men or for women.

00:22:33: just for yourself.

00:22:35: find yourself Your sense and be true

00:22:42: because if you're motivation to do that in your life.

00:22:48: Were you able to speak with some women and kind of inspire them as well?

00:22:54: I think they inspired me even more really, yeah They are so strong So beautiful inside out.

00:23:03: For example Rita Tarana from India.

00:23:05: she's from Bangalore Indian influencer, very well known.

00:23:10: She's a beautiful face but when I met her she had even more beautiful heart and she is woman's right activist which can be dangerous in India.

00:23:25: But of course...I really admire her.

00:23:28: It's not the lady with the...

00:23:30: No it's not her!

00:23:31: ...but i want to visit her.

00:23:32: Yes

00:23:33: tell us about that lady.

00:23:35: Is this red?

00:23:37: I think it's called the pink gula big gang.

00:23:39: Yes

00:23:40: or something like that.

00:23:42: They are ladies in pink

00:23:44: Ladies in pink

00:23:45: and they took rights into their hands when men Are bad to female.

00:23:51: so self-defense,

00:23:52: right?

00:23:52: Yeah When they beat a wife Or one day our cheating or something i don't know

00:24:01: but she has a technique Right Like It's a proper.

00:24:05: yeah It's legal, I think.

00:24:08: But she is a massive, massive spokesperson for women's rights Right?

00:24:14: Yeah There are books about her.

00:24:17: She was very famous

00:24:18: And they're more like this Even in Nepal.

00:24:21: there...I forgot the name but she has a mighty Nepal and she's rescuing young girls who were trafficked

00:24:31: Really trafficked

00:24:32: In India.

00:24:34: So a lot of women like this are in India and Nepal, I want to meet them all.

00:24:40: What do you feel for inside your spirit?

00:24:45: Because You're very connected And i can feel that Do you have the message

00:24:53: For

00:24:55: Women To tell something That's going help them Unleash themselves?

00:25:01: Maybe from What you just said, You were scared as a young child to probably even do things or go out of different places.

00:25:10: How how?

00:25:12: How did you find that space inside yourself and say I want to be able To give a message to other women as well.

00:25:23: what's That

00:25:23: Space for you?

00:25:25: hmm i think it is very important.

00:25:28: Just sit with Yourself To talk to yourself,

00:25:33: I like this.

00:25:34: To have...to create a relationship with your self.

00:25:38: So take yourself to dates or dates.

00:25:41: Take care of you skin and hair And then take care Of your soul & heart And really talk to your heart.

00:25:50: Wow!

00:25:51: Like friend-to-friend People forget to talk to themselves To Have conversations With their inner voice.

00:25:59: Yeah Yeah,

00:26:00: it's so...

00:26:02: You just said everything was about looking back inside and I was thinking this the other day.

00:26:07: Everything isn't in a game!

00:26:10: It is not an out-of-game folks because what you think of yourself outside right?

00:26:18: And now we have seen society where everything looks like but You're saying to go back inside and have sit with yourself.

00:26:33: Have a relationship with your self, talk to yourself look after your soul.

00:26:39: This is all about you Coming Back To remember who are

00:26:45: of course because all these things in our modern world social media Media

00:26:51: any kind

00:26:52: yes they are trying to disconnect us from ourselves.

00:26:56: Why do think that?

00:26:59: Because we are parallelized.

00:27:00: when we're disconnected from ourselves

00:27:04: Wow, okay.

00:27:07: And do you think that?

00:27:07: When we and disconnected from our selves.

00:27:10: We aren't in this kind of like he said a paralyzed place That love cannot filter through it just it does its blocked because then we can.

00:27:21: if I don't have love for ourselves How could we have loved so the rest of the world right?

00:27:27: It's very true

00:27:28: yeah.

00:27:30: So the disconnection is to reconnect and that's not put your phone into charge.

00:27:35: Is it?

00:27:36: It's too Reconnect you

00:27:39: I would say maybe sometimes more difficult than putting your phone in but sometimes even more easy Just so easily.

00:27:50: what are some things for you that you reconnect with yourself again?

00:27:56: For example, I really love simple walks a nature.

00:28:01: it brings me peace and clarity in my mind.

00:28:06: And the most intense thing I can experience to bring back myself is traveling, soul-traveling because when you are abroad at a different place where you've never been before all your senses they're alive!

00:28:25: They are so... You

00:28:28: curious?

00:28:29: Your curiosity opens up.

00:28:32: It's what I find when you go to a new place, You just want to walk down the streets and...I think we're very similar.

00:28:39: because um When i've gone overseas?

00:28:41: I like to go where all the local people Go.

00:28:43: Mm-hmm!

00:28:44: I don't Like To Go Where All Tourists Go..I like to Who is drinking coffee Down The Side Street And I Want to Try their Tea Their Coffee Their Cakes Their Sweets.

00:28:55: I might not like Eating them, but at least I have a try right?

00:29:00: Are you that are kind of similar as well where you like to just suck everything out?

00:29:04: Yeah.

00:29:05: I love local places.

00:29:06: really I don't like touristic places at all.

00:29:08: yeah Like yeah, I can go there and see it But I didn't want to spend much more time There even here or Prague.

00:29:17: I don' t want to go to the city center.

00:29:19: No You go outside so you go out an explore The real people.

00:29:25: Maybe the city centre and these touristic places are more artificial than other places because you can feel authentic life in other parts when we're not at a tourist place.

00:29:39: And what

00:29:39: happens to you, as an authentic person?

00:29:42: Do you like to write or make videos?

00:29:45: What do they

00:29:46: do?!

00:29:46: To let it out!

00:29:47: You cannot keep them all inside!

00:29:49: Yeah I'm writing my Dior into my... I've been writing since i'm fifteen, so it's really nice to see

00:29:55: a journal.

00:29:57: Yeah and...I am just watching everything around And..just....i am there sitting with my mind listening to the wind birds people.

00:30:13: So you have learnt something about being in the present moment.

00:30:19: I find that what you're saying is that, You are not thinking about What am i going to do tomorrow?

00:30:25: What have a better doing in an hour.

00:30:26: Your like Im here right now and im gonna take all of this In how important it's for woman To tap into the present moment because i think thats where creativity Is.

00:30:37: Thats were its nexus It sitting there As soon as u enter the present Moment.

00:30:43: U can be creative But if your constantly thinking Of other things How Can U Be Creative?

00:30:49: Yeah, I think it's important for everyone to appreciate the present moment and this is a skill.

00:30:54: I learned during my travels from people when i was talking with them about philosophy of life like in Cambodia even gypsy villages in Romania

00:31:06: Yes!

00:31:06: And they were like...I don't know what tomorrow will be?

00:31:11: I'm just happy now and I am happy that I'm healthy

00:31:17: But I'm

00:31:18: just thinking about this moment.

00:31:20: This movement is important, grateful for having this moment and then whatever tomorrow brings i'm sure it'll be okay.

00:31:29: wow what a... What an interesting outlook in life because you know we've been taught have goals right down.

00:31:36: exactly ten goals five years and by the time

00:31:39: you do that like oh i don't want any goals sort of live day-to-day knowing that I'm doing the best and I can.

00:31:46: So draining

00:31:47: to have so much goals!

00:31:50: Yeah, so many bullet points... ...and so many spreadsheets of things.

00:31:54: it needs be achieved.

00:31:56: but have you found a living in moment has take on paths where opportunities are opened up for?

00:32:03: In unexpected parts yes And i feel like when you had goals It happened with me When I had goal You can lost yourself under way there Because this goal can last and keeps you in this path for I don't know, five to ten years.

00:32:19: But what if you realize during these paths that you enjoy something else?

00:32:25: And we didn't!

00:32:26: Yeah...

00:32:27: You didn't give yourself a chance.

00:32:28: That's

00:32:28: why you need to be connected with your self at the present moment.

00:32:32: To listen to your heart would make you happy.

00:32:34: Just do it

00:32:35: There.

00:32:35: so makes sense.

00:32:36: Wow So do see your life like that Like when you live Not day-to-day, but I'm sure you have some plans.

00:32:44: But they're not like...I have to achieve this

00:32:48: in three

00:32:48: years time!

00:32:50: I was like that yeah and i've not liked it now.

00:32:52: No And uh It's better for me not be like that.

00:32:56: Do find out?

00:32:56: That's a feminine attribute as well.

00:32:58: flow into life You know be able to just weave in and weave out.

00:33:03: Yeah, definitely it has something with femininity.

00:33:05: Yes yes yeah

00:33:06: It's a beauty thing as well And patience comes with that.

00:33:09: So also at the same time you're In the present moment You are flowing But At The Same Time Your Still Listening To The Guidance but...at The Same time your Also still planning.

00:33:26: Does That Make Sense?

00:33:27: I know sounds like you doing everything But they come in a different order.

00:33:30: You're not planning, then trying to flow... Then try and get things to happen like it's a different

00:33:36: way.

00:33:36: I'd say you are enjoying the flow while this is your learning

00:33:43: because of the flow?

00:33:44: Yes!

00:33:44: And what kind opportunities have you found?

00:33:46: because i know that you talked about setting up schools.

00:33:51: was it or Things for children.

00:33:55: Yes in Nepal?

00:33:56: yes, I will volunteering in Nepal and Buddhist school And I listen to my inner voice.

00:34:03: Yeah because that was just...I never travel abroad when it's summer like you escape winter?

00:34:09: And i love to be at home on its summer Because I loved summer in Slovakia.

00:34:12: Oh

00:34:12: It is absolutely beautiful here Sometimes

00:34:16: too hot but can't

00:34:18: be.

00:34:20: But there was an evening.

00:34:23: I was online shopping clothes.

00:34:25: Okay and then i was listening, thinking to myself do i need these clothes?

00:34:30: really wouldn't be better if i go volunteering into buddhist school in nepal?

00:34:35: wow it's a life-old moment?

00:34:38: Do i really need those clothes?

00:34:40: maybe i should go.

00:34:41: Wow okay

00:34:43: this is great!

00:34:44: And i really didn't need it.

00:34:46: so i booked ticket to nepal the more beautiful experience in my life.

00:34:56: I left half of my heart there, i needed to go meditation and bring it back.

00:35:00: Are you serious?

00:35:01: Yeah!

00:35:01: I had depression after... After..I came back.

00:35:05: Did

00:35:05: You get close with all the kids just being that environment.

00:35:10: It was so.... I think even like being with myself because for first time I left my phone on social media Nooo Of My Life And I was enjoying the present moment and reality of this life without phone.

00:35:26: What you were doing before twenty years, it was normal but now... It's so different!

00:35:34: Like a vacation from your daily lives.

00:35:36: Yes like a detox right?

00:35:38: You say K-phone you're staying home.

00:35:40: But I

00:35:41: felt real And i also connected to myself To my self and said that have come back and wouldn't be so connect again.

00:35:51: So I was a depressed little.

00:35:53: Wow!

00:35:55: What happened with the initiative there?

00:35:57: Were you able to volunteer, what were you doing as a volunteer?

00:36:04: I'm supposed take pictures and videos And make some materials for their promotion because they live in donations of people.

00:36:13: so i wanted help on my marketing skills.

00:36:17: But there was some miscommunication with other brother of this guy.

00:36:23: And I teach them English and

00:36:25: my English isn't so... It's just fantastic!

00:36:28: Look what I'm saying, sir You ended up teaching in the

00:36:31: language?

00:36:31: Well it really is English Just small kids but

00:36:34: they must have loved it.

00:36:37: So that was a part of your heart Your soul giving back.

00:36:42: Which kind of sharing?

00:36:43: Right which is sharing And you've been rewarded for it.

00:36:47: because I'm segwaying now, but segway into your time and effort that you gave as a volunteer has led to onto this amazing journey of love.

00:37:02: And soulmate which was very unexpected for you.

00:37:06: It's

00:37:07: so left field right?

00:37:09: It wasn't really an expected yes...and

00:37:10: its beautiful story cause i know we spoke way before even happened

00:37:16: And

00:37:17: I'd love to go into that because, believe it.

00:37:20: Because of your generous heart and how you have helped You know the reward has been this beautiful partnership That is being bestowed upon us.

00:37:30: so Let's end his conversation.

00:37:33: where are when you talk to me?

00:37:35: I think we're outside.

00:37:36: He said i'm going on On a date

00:37:38: is... A date!

00:37:39: And I said, oohh tell me all about it.

00:37:42: Yes i remember

00:37:43: this like.. I got so excited for it's like well what are you gonna wear?

00:37:45: What're ya going to do?

00:37:46: You were like oh don't know if I wanna go.

00:37:47: That was he said

00:37:48: Remember?

00:37:50: I remember exactly.

00:37:51: It was beautiful and the best day ever And I wouldn't say that when we weren't talking.

00:37:57: No

00:37:58: no after

00:38:00: that I will tell who my soulmate is and im gonna marry him.

00:38:03: We

00:38:03: did.

00:38:03: we came in had cake afterwards ummm and sat down.

00:38:07: This changed my whole life.

00:38:09: And I thought, wow this is amazing because you had noticed that he has also done some humanitarian work and... He had a love for India as well!

00:38:19: He found me because of MyVirginLipBal school on Instagram and he contacted me Because we wanted to go there.

00:38:24: so his experience in Nepal

00:38:28: opened

00:38:28: up.

00:38:29: So your being able do that which was just doing the thing natural brought energy Man into your life and you too Would I say like two peas in a pod?

00:38:43: Like explain this to me because i've watched something.

00:38:46: You have to see her stories.

00:38:47: I think it's just magic, you can't explain that

00:38:50: It's

00:38:51: magic!

00:38:53: Since I was child...I always felt presence of soul In my life..I feel like I need to find the soul And his lifetime.

00:39:08: strong and masculine man, intelligent kind loving romantic like old school romantic.

00:39:17: I wanted a man who will write me letters handwritten letters Wow!

00:39:21: And i never had men like this.

00:39:24: Okay maybe... This is too

00:39:28: much Men like these.

00:39:29: they don't even

00:39:32: exist now.

00:39:34: So I met this guy And I have a box full of letters from him now.

00:39:40: So he just naturally writes you letters?

00:39:43: He even write me poems and song.

00:39:49: Okay, so You really need to inspire the ladies because...I speak too many women who are either waiting for their soulmate or they're trying.

00:40:00: This is something that in society we hear so much about these stories.

00:40:05: Where's this

00:40:07: guy?!

00:40:09: What do you think YOU had to do in order for that to magnetise?

00:40:16: Because there's gotta be something there.

00:40:17: It was a long journey!

00:40:22: In the game,

00:40:22: right?!

00:40:23: My heart was broken many times before it

00:40:25: did but

00:40:27: every time I realised I needed... Even when I broke your engagement...

00:40:32: Torrenti, three-one what did you

00:40:33: say??

00:40:34: You said you NEEDED

00:40:35: THAT!!

00:40:36: I felt like... My soul was craving it.

00:40:40: When I broke the engagement, I had these thoughts that... ...I need to experience heartbreaks.

00:40:47: Why?

00:40:49: Because you grow through pain and i felt like.. ..i needed more experiences in this life!

00:40:58: Every experience is good even negative or positive when thinking about bigger

00:41:05: things.

00:41:06: Wow.

00:41:06: Oh gosh, you're so brave!

00:41:08: She says... You needed the heartbreak to experience it.

00:41:11: Is that so?

00:41:12: That you could work with any kind of triggers inside of you?

00:41:16: Yeah..that you can heal.

00:41:17: So like any traumas challenges Like I'm not gonna let this stop me

00:41:22: Yes and only hard breaks and pain can do these.

00:41:26: So my heart many times broke And i was searching for love from my desperate state and I found only bad men.

00:41:35: So when you're in... Okay, this is interesting!

00:41:38: When you are in a desperate state, you magnetize the wrong man?

00:41:42: Yes Like an light bulb moment, mic drop.

00:41:45: But it's so simple truth.

00:41:47: And when you weren't In a desperate stage You had worked on yourself doing things that you loved That were passionate about.

00:41:57: Something shifted.

00:41:59: Not really It has to.

00:42:02: came the hardest heartbreak, The last heart break.

00:42:06: Oh see we had a horrible heartbreak before?

00:42:08: Yeah when I was stepping into my last relationship...I knew from day one that this will be really hard and it can destroy me And This will hurts a lot But i need to do It!

00:42:24: So i wonder After this relationship I was ready, I was whole.

00:42:32: I was myself...

00:42:34: What did you learn in that terrible heartbreak about yourself?

00:42:37: To

00:42:37: love my self!

00:42:43: Before that i was afraid to be alone but after the relationship i was craving for being alone with just me and not looking at other people.

00:42:59: Oh my goodness Just this alone, I'm sure is speaking like to so many women because what you just said... To be your own rock.

00:43:14: To learn to be with yourself and to love yourself first!

00:43:19: And

00:43:20: that was through heartbreak of many relationships.

00:43:25: Yeah as i said in the beginning of this interview I need to experience it, feel

00:43:31: it.

00:43:31: It's really brave to say that

00:43:33: and learn.

00:43:34: but now i feel like my soul is satisfied after these ten years of heartbreaks and pain.

00:43:42: you're not letting it happen again.

00:43:43: this is it!

00:43:44: You know that it's sealed.

00:43:46: every time i felt i needed another heartbreak ,another pain...I found out..that its'nt enough.

00:43:52: But Now ..i Know Its Enough.

00:43:54: Finally

00:43:55: Wow And so tell me when we had the conversation ...you were gonna go have You know this date night and you said he's humanitarian.

00:44:03: I was like, oh my gosh!

00:44:04: He sounds... Like it's gonna be perfect.

00:44:07: what your expectations meaning him?

00:44:11: I'm dirty i have some experiences so..I didn't expect anything.

00:44:15: Wow I was just like okay ..i liked these men ,he is fine And his five years younger.

00:44:21: So he was more ...you know.

00:44:26: More

00:44:26: energetic

00:44:28: Yes and more happy about it in the beginning because I you know after my experiences, i was more careful with my feelings.

00:44:39: But he was like this And It brought me trust In him Because He is more initiative More loving.

00:44:47: He's doing

00:44:48: parts that You liked.

00:44:49: So

00:44:50: I felt this safety?

00:44:52: So you felt safe, self protected All those things

00:44:57: You had

00:44:57: worked on in yourself.

00:44:59: So you felt safe within your self.

00:45:02: But you needed to feel safe as a woman, right?

00:45:05: In relation

00:45:05: and when I felt this safety from him...I was able to

00:45:09: Feel

00:45:10: the love towards him and open up.

00:45:12: yes Wow!

00:45:13: And did that happen instantly or...?

00:45:16: Instantly?

00:45:18: No way Did

00:45:21: you walk away from there.

00:45:22: go what just happened.

00:45:25: Because I know you messaged me and you're like, oh this is it.

00:45:29: Yeah It was... I couldn't believe that!

00:45:31: So fast And even do not what exactly?

00:45:35: What is Lionsgate?

00:45:37: Yes and it was Lionsgate Was it

00:45:39: really?!

00:45:40: Uh..it was Lions gate and i wrote into my diary Every time when I was asking for a man from my soulmate.

00:45:46: I was askin'.

00:45:47: okay he has to be like these.

00:45:50: but this time the first time I just wrote please Man of my life, come here.

00:45:57: I didn't have any expectations and no rules or anything.

00:46:00: No

00:46:00: more bullet points since seven thousand?

00:46:02: Yes!

00:46:02: I just said that i'm ready for you.

00:46:04: And three days after this he texted me.

00:46:08: Wow!

00:46:09: One month after he texted him He gave the first kiss and... That was it.

00:46:16: Since then we knew were going to get married.

00:46:19: we are going to have family and I didn't want it to have kids before but now i wanted, I want to be mother.

00:46:27: I want him to be father of my kids.

00:46:29: oh my goodness this is absolutely beautiful.

00:46:32: well I

00:46:32: had a viewer ask a question and I wanted to ask you this question And she has said um Now that you have met your soulmate in your partner What do you wish you had known sooner in your life?

00:46:54: But it's true that he will come.

00:46:58: That what I felt since I was a kid, there is this guide, the soul and they need to find his lifetime.

00:47:04: It's true.

00:47:06: Wow So knowing that...it IS THE TRUTH!

00:47:10: IT IS GOING TO HAPPEN.

00:47:12: You wished that.

00:47:12: you knew that Because it's tough when you're going through.

00:47:15: I knew that, but do you know... You think like okay It can be just some your

00:47:21: imagination.

00:47:22: Yes But if i knew its truth..I would more calm or in peace Maybe not desperate and love Like searching for the right man.

00:47:34: So chasing something Doesn't get us what we want to

00:47:37: never Just

00:47:38: constant.

00:47:40: Its like having a hold of something And just tightly squeezing it,

00:47:44: the life out of it.

00:47:46: Yeah because you will meet a wrong man and you'll think... You will try to talk to like okay maybe he's the one?

00:47:55: And you will see the right man in The Wrong Man.

00:47:57: Yes!

00:47:58: ...you will see differently.

00:48:00: Wow

00:48:00: wow this is so.

00:48:01: there's so much gold in this conversation.

00:48:04: and look we even have this beautiful.

00:48:07: I wanted to show that card that we have here today cause its all about love.

00:48:14: You know with her voice impacts and we talk about the heart Because a heart is the center point of where all manifestation comes out.

00:48:23: There's a heart as well.

00:48:24: your self-worth Is.

00:48:25: this is where?

00:48:27: Your love is.

00:48:28: This is where you're connection is to humanity, and things that you want do impact.

00:48:34: And You being in this beautiful Love relationship.

00:48:39: but it's not It's not separate two what you're doing overall in your life, because both of you have somehow come together and had this shared passion.

00:48:48: What is it that you two see doing together for humanity?

00:48:54: Definitely!

00:48:56: He's a very smart guy...in business but he went to travel around the world one year before we met.

00:49:05: Yes But he left one month after we got together Because he wants to find the right purpose.

00:49:12: He want's do business with on a purpose, To help people.

00:49:17: So I'm really looking forward for our life too.

00:49:19: do homeroom work together.

00:49:21: Wow and you both love travel as well

00:49:25: And same kind of traveling.

00:49:27: no resorts just Low cost.

00:49:30: and wow,

00:49:32: I've seen them get on motorbikes.

00:49:33: Yeah How do you film with a motorbike going so fast?

00:49:36: Like your?

00:49:37: just why

00:49:38: I love it.

00:49:39: You holding the camera or what are you doing?

00:49:41: you got to try part

00:49:42: of.

00:49:42: I was holding it.

00:49:43: yeah

00:49:45: Wow And you're go into all these really cool places in eating amazing food and meeting like interesting people.

00:49:52: I love to meet these people.

00:49:54: My boyfriend, he enjoys nature although... Yes!

00:49:57: ...I enjoy too but even more I enjoy the faces of people and their colourful clothes And the way they are moving and talking.

00:50:06: Wow.

00:50:06: so you like to get them in there organic state Like whatever they're doing maybe cooking something or cleaning Or walking You just like that shot.

00:50:16: It's very important, it is present moment stuff

00:50:19: right?

00:50:19: Yeah.

00:50:20: You should do a book on the present moment!

00:50:23: Maybe one day.

00:50:24: Photo

00:50:24: journey of the present moments.

00:50:30: Nina what can you leave for the audience watching?

00:50:36: or maybe the one person who has just gravitated to your story and said wow I see myself in that... What If they are scared to make that step out or go inner, because Inner means you're gonna have to face some stuff.

00:50:55: Yeah?

00:50:58: I'd say... You just need to step outside of your comfort zone and To find your fire inside of you And believe in it.

00:51:14: Try to love yourself more.

00:51:16: It's like skill.

00:51:17: You have to learn it, I didn't know how to do but you can learn it and just listen to your heart.

00:51:25: that is all i can say And my boyfriend always says to me Listen yourself don´t expect any approval from outside of the world because they are doing this all the time and im the one who tells others to listen for themselves.

00:51:39: But sometimes I need some approval so I need more.

00:51:44: Wow!

00:51:46: That is amazing and I am so honoured to have you here on Her Voice Impacts, in giving us the true authentic story of love.

00:51:55: And doing the work that your passionate about but also what you allowed yourself go through was a stretch So that you could be doing this now... ...and not probably in your latter years right?

00:52:10: You wouldn't want it going though that in your later year's right?

00:52:13: I just want peace now.

00:52:15: Love!

00:52:20: Thank you for

00:52:20: inviting me, it was

00:52:21: a really nice experience.

00:52:23: Beautiful!